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Onyeulor Joy @Chibabe   

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At 16, Kola believed he had already missed his chance at life.

It started quietly. A scroll through social media. Classmates launching small businesses, winning competitions, traveling abroad. People his age seemed to be ahead—clear paths, big dreams, visible progress. Meanwhile, Kola sat on his bed most evenings, staring at the same ceiling, wondering why his own life felt… paused.

He didn’t fail. He wasn’t lazy. But he also wasn’t moving, and that felt worse.

One evening during a power outage, with the room dim and his phone battery nearly dead, Kola stepped outside. The street was quieter than usual. No loud music, no glowing screens—just the hum of distant generators and a sky full of stars he hadn’t noticed in years.

An old man sat a few steps away, repairing a worn-out radio with surprising patience.

“You look like someone chasing something that keeps running,” the man said, without looking up.

Kola sighed. “Everyone else is already ahead. I don’t even know where I’m going.”

The man chuckled softly. “Do you know how long it took me to learn this?” He tapped the radio. “Forty years. And even now, I still make mistakes.”

“That’s different,” Kola said. “You had time.”

The man finally looked at him. “So do you. You just don’t believe it.”

Kola frowned. “It doesn’t feel that way.”

“Because you’re measuring your life with someone else’s ruler,” the man replied.

That stuck.

The next day, nothing magical happened. Kola still woke up unsure. Still felt behind. But something had shifted—just slightly. Instead of comparing himself all day, he asked a different question:

What is one small thing I can move forward today?

Not something impressive. Not something others would clap for. Just one step.

So he started small. He picked up an old interest—drawing. His sketches weren’t great, but they were his. He practiced a little each day. Some days he skipped. Some days he doubted everything again. But slowly, quietly, he improved.

Weeks passed.

Months passed.

One afternoon, a classmate noticed his notebook. “You drew this?” they asked, surprised.

Kola shrugged. “Yeah… just been practicing.”

That moment didn’t change the world. But it changed something inside him.

He realized something important:

Feeling behind doesn’t mean you are behind. It just means you’ve been looking sideways instead of forward.

Life isn’t a race with one finish line. It’s more like a long road with different starting points, different speeds, and unexpected turns. Some people sprint early and burn out. Others walk slowly and discover things no one else sees.

Kola never became the “fastest” or the “most successful” overnight.

But he stopped feeling stuck.

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